Inactive, Part 3

When I was inactive I sustained wounds from church-members who reached out to me to persuade me to return to their congregation without learning about, assisting with, or addressing my needs and God's will for me. Going forward, I intend to offer others what the Lord would have me give, rather than my own expectations. Have you noticed the difference between loving someone the way she is, or the way the Lord does, rather than with your own expectations and attachment to outcome? What helps us love as He does?