Inactive, Part 4

A church member helped me when I was inactive by sharing a scripture that was inspired. It was the word of the Lord, what God wanted me to hear right then. And THAT helped! It was just right! Even though it was stressful for him. How can we minister to others the way this brother ministered to me? What can we do to deliver the message that God wants them to hear, rather than the message we want to share?